Any healthy man gets excited several times faster than a woman. For many, a quick glance at a naked body is enough for an erection and subsequent intercourse. Others need reinforcement in the form of tactile stimulation - these are people with a kinesthetic perception of external information. Everything needs to be touched, physically felt, to be processed and accepted by the brain. If your partner likes to be touched and it affects him the most, he belongs to this group. Of course, guys with an increased need for touch will not refuse the appearance of a beautiful girl, but your arsenal should include stimulating methods with your hands and other parts of the body!
It is a misconception that only the female half needs foreplay. Men also love love and don't mind prolonging their pleasure to relax physically and psychologically. A strong body has no fewer erogenous points than beautiful girls. For a quality erotic session, you will need knowledge about sensitive areas, so let's enrich our baggage together with seductive methods. Today we will learn how to excite a person with our hands and how to press all the "red buttons"!
Erogenous points in men, caress them properly
Erogenous zones are the areas of the skin that are most sensitive to touch and impact. Their caresses help to increase arousal and erection. Over time, you will learn to identify not only common male erogenous zones, but also individual ones for each individual boy, which gives you power over the stronger sex. When a girl caresses him, as if reading his innermost thoughts at that moment, the man is simply crazy! Let's move on to practical exercises.
Head and face
You should not think that all sensitive areas are concentrated in the penis and scrotum. Most men enjoy having their hands run through their hair. The delicacy of touching the back of your hand to your cheeks, eyebrows and chin is no less pleasant. Run your fingers wide through her hair so that it falls between them and pull the ends over her face. You can complete the movement with gentle kisses on the base of the ear. What attracts me most is not the touch of the lips, but the warm breath, so acutely perceived.
Neck
In men, this part of the body is ideal for arousing passion with the hands. The most sensitive area is the skin strip from the ears to the middle of the shoulder. Move your fingertips up and down and follow with kisses. If your partner responds positively to such stimuli, you can use tongue caresses.
The line from the beginning of hair growth down to the interscapular area is the runway. Hot trips start here, a sign that the lady will come down soon and there will be a "blessing". . . Gently walk over it with the edge of your palm or fingers. Your body will likely be covered in goosebumps. Repeat.
Back
On the back, you need to touch on several points to properly excite a man with your hands:
- between the shoulder blades
- above the shoulder blades, near the shoulder area,
- 3-5 cm below the interscapular zone,
- on both sides of the coccyx + the coccyx itself.
These lust "batteries" can be caressed with your fingertips, hair, and some girls know how to effectively affect them with their breasts. Touching nipples on women's backs confuses men.
For many guys, hugging from behind is an incredibly attractive gesture, especially in the case of a completely naked female body.
If everything is in order with the vegetation in your intimate area, you can use a completely open provocation - stroke the sacral back (tailbone area) with the cat. Remember that after a few seconds, the guy will not be able to control his desires, so the attraction with secret methods will end there. Your only option is to tie him up or handcuff him.
By the way, the immobilized, blindfolded partner pays more attention to tactile stimuli and therefore experiences sharper sensations. Pay attention to this idea!
Torso
In the front of the body, the most sensitive points that immediately respond to caresses are the nipples and the hairy part of the abdomen, which leads to the peak of male size. Keep in mind that men have slightly different nipple sensitivity than girls, so you shouldn't pull them with the same intensity. There are individuals to whom such incentives will be distasteful, so, dear tigers and panthers, we shine and listen to the desires of our deluded object. Many people like it when a girl runs her palms over her chest and stomach while sitting on it.
Shoulders and arms
The shoulders themselves are not an erogenous zone, but a light massage of the central part will help ensure a smooth transition from one part of the body to another. The hands, on the other hand, have several very sensitive points.
- The outer part of the elbow, or rather the inner bend of the arm, is a place where sensitivity to light touch increases. More brutal tactics go unanswered. You can move your fingertips back and forth from this point to the wrist.
- The area between the middle and ring fingers. Many boys respond to her touch with a penile stroking.
- Palms and fingertips are also very sensitive to the gentle touch of hands, lips, and warm breath.
Feet
Do you still think that a man's legs are not involved in arousal and are only needed for support during sex? You are very wrong! Legs, it turns out, are a real erogenous crater! Kneading the toes, gently stroking the heels and insoles will encourage the owner more.
The space below the knee is another erogenous zone to arouse a man with his hands. Stroking, light touches, pressure turns boys wild.
The combination of the torso and thighs is full of nerve endings, which makes it possible to classify this region of the male body as highly erogenous. Caressing his hip bones with your fingers can make a guy shiver with pleasure.
Anal hole
Many men do not let women into this field at gunpoint because they are ashamed or afraid of creating an image of a person focused on their gender. And nature made it very erogenous! Stroking the ass inside and out turns any man on. The main thing is to relax. Gently stroking the anus ring with your fingertips puts the guy in the right mood. If you want, you can put your fingers in his ass and feel the most sensitive moments there, giving maximum response to passionate appeals. We wrote about how to do this in an article on how to convince your husband to have sex with a strap - read it.
Erection and scrotum
And the main dish is, of course, masculinity! Stroking (pulling, squeezing, fingering) the testicles with your hands, masturbating to the genital itself, and touching the skin between the anus and the genitals can all result in spurting. It all depends on your skills.
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How to properly rub a penis with your hands to excite a guy
To properly excite a man with your hands, you need to know how to control his penis. Some girls are convinced that it is enough to slide up and down and sand the foreskin for a seductive feeling. They are very wrong. You need to know how to handle a penis, and no less than a woman's vagina.
Correct grip
There are several main ways to hold a penis.
- The traditional option is a fist grip, where the movements can be an "up and down" translation, or a spiral rotation.
- We press the head with our thumb, the rest are below.
- You need to make a small ring (OK sign) from the thumb and forefinger, connect them and make a fist (see the picture below),
- It will be easy to excite a man if you lubricate your hands first. The fist in the opposite position (you should see the back of the hand and the thumb pointing towards the woman) should move as if crushing the penis.
He strokes his fingers and hands
To increase the feelings of a partner, a woman should pay attention to the warmth of her hands in advance. Using any technique to hold the penis and stimulate the man with warm hands, you can achieve an orgasm quickly. But you should not overheat the scrotum. This is not good for boys' health.
Some representatives of the stronger sex like it when a woman hits the shaft with the phalanges of her fingers. It is better to do this by imagining that you are playing the guitar, so as not to visually scare your partner with sweeping movements.
A man gets a special sensation when his penis is caressed by the hands of two women at the same time. We place the dignity between the palms without bending the fingers. We move slowly and smoothly up and down, touch your head with the thumb of one hand and make circular movements.
If your partner has a lot of foreskin, twist it in a different way: you don't need to go to the base, on the contrary, make squeezing manipulations towards the head. Under the skin, the main erogenous zone - the head of the genital organ - is caressed, and since the caresses are carried out indirectly, there is no risk of erasing it. Men with such a structure come bright from such techniques!
It is important not to forget to stroke the testicles. The effect of simple massage movements will not only excite, but also bring health: during puberty, potential problems can be avoided by regularly stroking and kneading the testicles. Take them in your hands, hold them, squeeze them, pull them to the side or down a little (a little! this is not a wrist extender! ), then start massaging the base of the penis in circular motions and touch casually. testicles.
An unusual caress with a nail plate, which should be drawn along the shaft and along the scrotum, will add elegance and increase the effect of the whole process.
After the man is very excited, you can move on to more daring experiments. To continue, the girl must rub her labia on her partner's penis and make sliding movements without penetrating the vagina.
Combining the suggested techniques with high-quality enamel will help surprise your man and bring him to a state of ecstasy in a matter of minutes! In fact, there are no hard and fast rules for how to properly excite a man with your hands. Check her body centimeter by centimeter and watch her reaction to achieve harmony.
Some tips on massage techniques
We've talked about how to prepare a man for sex and arouse him as much as possible, but you want to make a signature feature so that he is completely and irrevocably turned on. Let's try to outdo the potential competitors and find the anchor to put it like a drug!
- Always lubricate your hands with oil or cream to ensure smooth movements. Gliding turns men on.
- Apply pressure, tapping, light pinching to the muscles and be sure to pause for a few seconds. It inflames the passions.
- Always start your journey from the upper body and work your way down slowly. There is no need to go directly to the genitals.
- While moving to the perineum, play with stretchy clothes or a towel after the shower to create even more excitement. Put your hands in your unbuttoned pants or under a towel, massage your privates and whisper in his ear how much it turns you on.
- You can hold the command tone and tell it what to do in the next minute. Even strong men are excited when a girl takes the initiative.
- Combine caresses with each other. Let an interesting hand massage turn into a wild orgy, the young man no longer understands where his body is and where his penis is. A wave of lust must wash over him!
- Use your chest. You can stroke the penis with both palms and rest your head on the nipples. Men love to touch their breasts with an erect penis!
And the main tip is to always use the difficult Thai technique. When you get to the point, pick another very sensitive area and stroke it at the same time. This member-anus, member-lower back, member-buttocks, etc. can be. You will see for yourself what a man answers more. When she's done, move to another second zone and caress your partner carelessly for another 20-30 seconds, pretending to soothe your partner. It should not be the most sensitive so as not to cause irritation. Repeat this over and over - this will be your trick.
You don't need to wait for instructions or requests from a man to excite him with your hands and bring him to orgasm. As a rule, representatives of the stronger sex do not hesitate to give the initiative to their partner in bed, they believe in his playful mood and passionate nature. Surprise and spontaneity are excellent conditions for daring experiments and 100% male excitement.
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